The Way It Is

If any of you are into bar tending, let me know what you think of the industry, likes and dislikes and pay structure.

I have just got through surfing some of the communities here and was really surprised by what typeS of links come up by the search words one types in, for instance: Money, which brings up all of these links about sex, fucking this or fucking that. Hardly anything about making money unless it has a way to make money with sex. Dont get me wrong I love sex just as much if not more than most people, but its not my only interest and I expect to see communities about making money when I type in the search word MONEY not sex sites.
One site caught my eye though simply because it was a journal entry and the persons name was something like lovefuckedme so i click on it and this poor lady is talking about how her little girl had seen her daddy smack her for the first time and that the little girl was starting to do things that she has seen her daddy do which is a very natural thing to do for children mimic what they see their parents do. She also said that her little girl came to her the other day and asked her mommy whats a cunt.
I couldnt help but post in her journal and tell her to pack her shit and leave, no one should be treated like that. My question is this why do women put up with bullshit like that? The world is full of people who want to love and be loved at the same time. I know because I have been one of those people and to some degree still want to be loved and give it as much as anyone.
When my twins were 21 months their mom and I divorced because she was fucking around and I got full custody of the twins and I raised them by myself until about 5 yrs ago when I remarried. Which I wonder about sometime LOL as most people do but the fact is I never ever laid a hand on the twins mom and I dont understand how anyone can stay with a man when he is smacking her around. Maybe some of you ladies can clear this up for me as to why this type of behavior is tolerated.

Ok guys, let me know what kind of Crafts your all interested in and if you have any great recipes that I can use, you see I want to create an e-book about both and any help or advice you guys have will be greatly appreciated, also if any of you know anything about web page design. I have seen one site that will give you one URL and six domains for $6.95 a month if you pay for at least 3 months in advance. Let me know what you think of this.

I just found out that I look 60% like Cary Grant, damn what a joke I was thinking more along the lines of John Belushi. Check out the pic in my profile lol.

Hello everyone, I need your help I have a few questions about this Journal thing.
1. How or can I delete entries that friends make?
2.If you are on my friends list does this mean, that everyone can see what I have typed to everyone else and read my post just because they are on my list?
God Damn I hope not, because if its not about sex or money or motorcycles or my e-book then I'm screwed because I would hate to think that I have spoken to someone about my e-book and then they happen to see where I have told someone they are hot so add me. God I would feel like such an ass. So help me out guys tell me I haven't done this please lol.

Its 5 in the morning, cant sleep and tired of dreaming about how things could be or should be and really don't know if or when things may change. Almost at the point where I say fuck it it all but I know I will keep struggling and dreaming what ifs even if I don't want to, hell of a way to live, never ending struggle and no light in sight. Fuck Me!!!!!